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Wonderful
Sounds for Sleep
By
Elizabeth Pantley,
Author
of the No-Cry Sleep Solution
The
environment that your baby enjoyed for nine long months in
the womb was not one of absolute quiet. There was a constant
symphony of sound -- your
heartbeat and fluids rushing in and out of the placenta.
(Remember those sounds from when you listened to your
baby’s heartbeat with the Doppler stethoscope?) Research
indicates that “white noise” sounds or soft bedtime
music helps many babies to relax and fall asleep more
easily. This is most certainly because these sounds create
an environment more familiar to your baby than a very quiet
room.
Many
people enjoy using soothing music as their baby’s sleep
sound. If you do, choose bedtime music carefully. Some music
(including jazz and much classical music) is too complex and
stimulating. For music to be soothing to your baby, pick
simple, repetitive, predictable music, like traditional
lullabies. Tapes created especially for putting babies to
sleep are great choices. Pick
something that you will enjoy listening to night
after night, too. (Using a tape player with an automatic
repeat function is helpful for keeping the music going as
long as you need it to play.)
There
are widely available, and very lovely, "nature
sounds" tapes that work nicely, too, as well those
small sound-generating or white-noise devices and clocks you
may have seen in stores. The sounds on these -- raindrops, a
bubbling brook or running water -- often are similar to
those sounds your baby heard in utero. A ticking clock or a
bubbling fish tank also make wonderful white-noise options.
“I
went out today and bought a small aquarium and the humming
noise does seem to relax Chloe and help her to sleep. I
didn’t buy any fish though. Who has time to take care of
fish when you’re half asleep all day?”
Tanya,
mother of 13-month-old Chloe
You
can find some suitable tapes and CDs made especially for
babies or those made for adults to listen to when they want
to relax. Whatever you choose, listen to it first and
ask yourself: Does this relax me? Would it make me feel
sleepy if I listened to it in bed?
If
you must put your baby to sleep in a noisy, active house
full of people, keeping the tape running (auto rewind) will
help mask baby-waking noises like dishes clanking, people
talking, siblings giggling, TV, dogs barking, etc. This can
also help transition your sleeping baby from a noisy daytime
house to which he’s become accustomed subconsciously to
one of absolute nighttime quiet.
Once
your baby is familiar with his calming noise, or music, you
can use these to help your baby fall back to sleep when he
wakes up in the middle of the night. Simply sooth him by
playing the music (very quietly) during the calming and
falling-asleep time. If he wakes and cries, repeat this
process.
If
your baby gets used to his sleep time sounds you can take
advantage of this and take the tape with you if you will be
away from home for naptime or bedtime. The familiarity of
these sounds will help your baby sleep in an unfamiliar
environment.
Eventually
your baby will rely on this technique less and less to fall
and stay asleep. Don’t feel you must rush the process;
there is no harm in your baby falling asleep to these gentle
sounds. When you are ready to wean him of these you can help
this process along by reducing the volume by a small amount
every night until you finally don’t turn the music or
sounds on at all.
Babies
enjoy these peaceful sounds, and they are just one more
piece in the puzzle that helps you to help your baby sleep
– gently, without any crying at all.
Excerpted
with permission by McGraw-Hill/Contemporary Publishing from The
No-Cry Sleep Solution: Gentle Ways to Help Your Baby Sleep
Through the Night by Elizabeth Pantley, copyright 2002
Website: http://www.pantley.com/elizabeth
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